We’re Not Afraid, We’re Just Overstimulated
We’re not afraid, we’re overstimulated
Because we’re porous
And lots of things move through us
The truth will set you free.
But what’s the truth about “too much stimuli?”
Seems a little nebulous.
Especially for those who can’t relate
To feeling so crazed—
Too loud
Too bright
Too intense
Too emotionally spent
Too many vibes
What vibes?
Oh, you can’t feel them?
The chef of this restaurant is going through a hard time
Trying to keep up
With your siblings
Your parents
Coworkers
The kids
You chase around all day
And then you’re just exhausted
& spent
But no one else is
Because you haven’t listened to your body all day
The pace was too fast
You can only stay
At the party
Up to three hours
Before you hit a wall
The stimulation is normal for them
Am I defective?
Sick?
Emotionally stunted?
Someone else asks for a happy hour
Extroverts are supposed to have energy
Right now
At golden hour!
But instead, she’s in her bed
Recuperating from the day
No, he’s not sick
He’s spent,
Frazzled
She took more in
Than was natural
And didn’t have a choice
It must be that attachment style
Holding him back
From relating
In health
Must be it!
But then I hear the words from my Father and He’s saying:
“Just take a shower”
“Get in bed”
“Eat right now”
“You’re okay”
“You’re not even afraid”
Then I read a book about HSPs
And realize
20% of the population is just overstimulated
And needs to be put to bed.